Subject: Re: Chastised--a call for more diplomacy
Date: Apr 20 08:15:55 1995
From: Dianna Harbin - harbin at u.washington.edu


On Thu, 20 Apr 1995, Stuart MacKay wrote:
> These "emotional" debates are always kind of fun - once the smoke clears. In
> the thick of the battle, sometimes its less so. It certainly gets people
> involved and lots of issues get aired.
>
> Stuart MacKay

"Fun" for some, yes, but at who's expense? There's something about
electronic communication that seems to allow people to WRITE things to
people that they hardly know that they would probably never SAY to that
person face to face. I have found myself writing such messages. I'm
trying to learn to cancel those message before sending them off. Let's
remember that we're communicating with REAL people who have REAL
feelings and that what we write in a fit of rage (even justified rage)
can be really destructive and lasting.